I started writing this blog post a couple of days ago, following my usual routine of checking the calendar, looking at the photos for the month and making sure all were uploaded to SmugMug, and even checking the Google Timeline app to see where we had been during the last 30 days.
This morning I looked at the blog to remember where I left off. It took a minute for the shock to wear off as I discovered that my April post was actually on April 5th!! I am fairly certain that doesn't count for a monthly post for April. And here I am at the end of May. Goodness. As many long-time bloggers have mentioned, blogging is becoming a thing of the past. So few left who blog on a regular basis, and even fewer who still blog daily. Al at the Bayfield Bunch is still doing his thing, and I am so impressed that he does. I still check in for his amazing photography and for news of Kelly and her heroic struggles.
The daffodils opened in late March and lasted for more than six weeksThank goodness for photos and my calendar or I wouldn't have a clue what we did during the last two months. I used to journal obsessively, but lately, even that old habit has gone by the wayside. This blog will keep me honest, and even if I have to work at remembering what to write about it is worth the effort. I write to remember much like the few bloggers who remain in this world. The older I get the less I remember without all these helpful little tools like cell phones and calendars and lists and most of all, the photos. So I will begin.
Tulips on April 11. I used deer spray since tulips are one of their favoritesApril and May here at Sunset House are mostly about springtime, with winter cleanup in full force, and watching the daily parade of flowers that break ground and then unfurl with incredible beauty. I take photo after photo of the process, following each new change in the mornings as I walk around the property.
Between walking around and taking photos, we made time for the extensive list of various doctor appointments that seem to aggregate around this time of year. Mo and I both managed eye and skin appointments, and doctor appointments with our GP who specializes in sports medicine and gives the best cortisone shots ever. My shoulder thanks him. Then there is the irritating swallowing issue I have that goes along with IBM. After an especially scary choking incident, the doctor insisted on an endoscopy. That also required more than one appointment before our delightful and superb gastro doctor let me know I had simple issues, which he fixed with some stretching and some meds. I can eat meat again!In early April, I took a mini vacation with my lifetime friend Maryruth. We wanted to celebrate 60 years of friendship, and although the actual date when we met was in September of 1963, we didn't manage to get time scheduled for just the two of us until April.
We spent two luxurious nights at the Ashland Springs Hotel, in the top floor room with a view of downtown Ashland and the mountains in the distance. It was a perfectly lazy bit of girl time, with eating and shopping and lying around all high on the agenda. After 60 years we know each other well, and the friendship is something I treasure.
Home again after our little outing and back to the springtime chores with Mo. We started working on the sprinkler system in mid-April, always a bit of tweaking required after the winter months. We were lucky this year and didn't have to make a lot of changes, but with our home installed drip system it seems there are always blowouts somewhere along the line that need replacing.This is the view of the blooming rhodie from the bedroom window.
April was cool, sunny, and absolutely gorgeous, and I spent a lot of time just walking around and soaking up the beauty. In between yard chores Mo and I found time for another puzzle. I think we are addicted to puzzles, but there is no way I would want to go more than 1000 pieces.
As April came to a close, we spent an evening playing dominoes with Maryruth and Gerald, and then invited blogger friend Bill Joyce to the house for lunch. No photos this time, even though Bill brought a full quilt bag so that he could show us all the quilts that Diane made over the winter. They were on their way north and once again stopped in Grants Pass for a few days and let us know that they would be around. Diane and Bill stay in Arizona all winter at a park where she can quilt to her heart's content. She is one of the most prolific quilters I know.
The photo is from last year's visit since I neglected to take a photo this year.As we talked, I learned that Bill and Diane were good friends with Laurie and Odel and Rick and Paulette back in the early days of RV blogging. Bill hasn't blogged for years and I had no idea who he was when he started commenting on my blog last year. It was a bit embarrassing to ask him "Who are you actually?" in an email and find out he had been following my blog since 2009. Sheesh.
Toward the end of April there was a bit of excitement as Daughter Deborah made the decision to look for a place closer to Grants Pass. Her teeny tiny apartment in Trail was getting to her, with too many problems associated with living on someone's property on a very rural dirt road. No matter how "cute" the place was, it was really too small for Deborah, and the local dog that barked a lot, the visiting pigs that rooted through her flowers, and the sound of logging trucks on a nearby road were a bit much. She started looking at rentals, but things shifted when she realized that she could buy a house. Mo and I went with her shopping, but Mo is the one that was with her when she found a place she could afford and that was in decent shape. It has a new roof, and while small, is twice the size of her tiny apartment and there probably won't be roaming pigs and loose dogs roaming through her nice fenced yard. And no more steep stairs to climb every night when she gets home after a long day at work.
Best of all, it is right here in Grants Pass, just 15 minutes from us. Deb is thrilled that she will no longer have to drive an hour each way to visit us and check on her son Matthew, who lives across the street from us, and won't have to drive home in the dark on rough roads any more.
Donna at American Title was kind enough to take a photo to celebrate the closingThe house closed fairly quickly, and by mid-May Deborah was out of the apartment and moved into her new place.
In the midst of the simple everyday stuff of life, Mother's Day showed up with flowers and cards and lots of love from all three of my daughters. I am so darn lucky to have such sweet and loving girls in my life.
Mother's Day flowers from Daughter Melody 150 miles away in Brownsville, OregonThe park isn't close to the beach, with the huge dunes forming a great barrier between the ocean and the campground. Hiking the dunes is fun and exhausting, and getting to the beach across the dunes is an activity for people much younger than we are. It didn't matter, though, because we decided to focus on kayaking the local lakes rather than spending much time at the beach.
I made our reservation, and then when talking with my friend Joanne, got a real suprise. "Suzanne!!" (Joanne still calls me by my official birth name I used back in the 80's). "Maybe we can go too!" Within minutes I got another call and Jo told me that they had a reservation right next to us. The next day Joanne called me again saying our mutual friends, Harvey and Colleen, from Bellingham, Washington, were on their way back home from Southern California and got a reservation right next to the four of us. Oh my. Our little two person getaway turned into a social event.
Before traveling to Honeyman, Mo and I read about Cleawox Lake, located near the entrance of the park, and knew it would be a good place to kayak. On our first morning there, we launched at a small spot referred to locally as the Eye of the Needle. It was a perfect easy place to get in and out of the boats, with shallow water and not too muddy.
On that first morning we meandered around some of the small arms of the lake before returning to the large dune that we learned later is encroaching on the lake. The lake itself is created from small streams that enter from the north but are then blocked by the dune from continuing to the ocean.
The water was quiet for most of our paddle, and we had no trouble getting out of the boats for a dune walk with Mattie. She did her usual sand zoomies, but at nearly ten years old, she is beginning to wear out a bit sooner than she used to. Still, it is wonderful to see her zooming around in the sand.
That evening, with Colleen being sensitive to smoke, we sat by their propane campfire for the evening visiting time. It was pleasant, and easy, and of course there was no smoke, but I missed the crackle and Mo does love to fiddle with the campfire, so she missed that. I don't think we will be interested in a propane campfire any time soon. I had forgotten that marshmallows contain gelatin, a no no for vegetarians, so the pack I bought to share around the campfire remained unopened. Next time. I am not that crazy about marshmallows, but I do love to cook them over the campfire.
The next morning Mo and I went kayaking again, leaving at 7:30 in order to beat the winds. On the previous day we met some women kayakers who were part of a local kayak group and they told us that if we followed a nearly invisible arm of the lake to the north we could paddle a mile and a half to the headwaters of the lake.
It was absolutely gorgeous at that time of day, with very little wind and silky smooth water. We paddled in the morning silence all the way to the end where there were a few houses along the shoreline.
I laughed when I told Mo I could never live in such a beautiful place. It was so dark and shady and so very damp. Lovely to look at but I could only see mold and mildew inside those houses so close to water and fog and the ocean.
The restaurant didn't feel especially fancy, but the food was excellent. By the time we finished our meal the place was completely packed, so evidently it is very popular. We didn't choose to eat at Mo's, the famous fish and chowder restaurant just across the street. It seems the food isn't as good as it used to be so it was time to try something new.
When I returned from my walk, Mo had readied everything for our departure and I was sorry I had dallied so much on the walk.
Even though our focus for this trip was kayaking, I was a bit surprised that we never actually made it to the beach. It was an excellent trip with time spent with good friends that we don't see very often.With almost two months to write about, I am feeling a bit disjointed. What have I forgotten? What do I remember most? Looking back it seems the times spent with daughter Deborah as she went through her transition from a rental to her own home was the most memorable. She spent a few weekends with us, saving her the need to drive back and forth from Trail to Grants Pass. We had good meals, watched some fun tv together, and as a mom, there is nothing quite as sweet as waking up in the morning to a sleepy-eyed daughter meeting me in the hall.
So yes, these photos are exactly as they came out of the camera. I used no enhancements or contrast or saturation fixes as I sometimes need to do with everyday photos. It was a beautiful experience to share with Mo and my daughter Deb.
This was a happy blog! Love that Deborah is now living near you and in her own home! Your photos of the aurora were great! And, your kayaking trip with extra folks along sounded like so much fun! I know that blogging is going away but that's OK--as you said, we are keeping a journal!
ReplyDeleteA busy time for you guys doing the things you love doing. It's great that Deborah will be closer to you now ... at least one daughter nearby. We didn't get to see the Aurora at all since we had full overcast where we are. We did see them in Greenland in 2013 ... but mostly green and blue instead of this fantastic fuschia.
ReplyDeleteGreat to hear from you! Looks like you had a good and somewhat busy spring. I also love the spring flowers that you captured so beautifully and posted for us. And how nice that Deb has a place of her own not far away. I loved seeing all the aurora borealis photos (enhanced or not!), and yours, too. We were in cloudy Monterey CA and didn't see any, but I saw them once in Niagara Falls many years ago. A beach getaway (with friends), kayaking (still miss it), and a happy time with Mary Ruth -- man, you've got it covered!
ReplyDeleteWhen I read the beginning of your recent post I realized that apparently I had not read your last one. Very strange since I really am sorry that so few people are blogging. I always loved reading them. Your spring flowers are gorgeous. I only have bushes these days or perennial bulbs since I am gone so much.
ReplyDeleteHow absolutely marvelous to have had a friend that you have seen over 60 years. What a gorgeous place for your celebration. I am loosely in touch now with a friend from HS but have not been over the years. David was my longest friend. Your surprise in Bill having followed you since 2009 is just why I wish everyone who reads would comment if only to say Hi I like reading your blog. Just so I would know they are out there. Oh how wonderful that Deborah has her own home and is now close to you. I’m green with envy. Honeyman looks like a wonderful place. And kayaking near by is a huge plus. I love your wooded site and am very surprised you could get a rather last minute reservation. But you aren’t as big as I am and boy does that help as RVs get bigger and bigger. And your friends could come and be right next to you. WOW! Would love to know Phil’s recipe for his “meatballs”. Your aurora pictures are fantastic. I can’t believe you did that with your phone. And that you got a clear pictures of the big dipper. I sadly had clouds and rain in Virginia. Guess I’d better update my galaxy phone. Which one do you have? Oh dear, sorry this is so long. That’s what you get for writing such a great post.